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    Counting My Kisses is all about finding that silver lining, even on our most frustrating days. It’s about cherishing my little girls and enjoying being married to my best friend. It’s about taking a minute to stop & remember what’s really important in life—and to discover that each & every experience gives us something to be thankful for.

    I’m a daughter, sister, friend, writer, and most importantly these days, a wife & mother. My life is full of fun chaotic moments, and this blog helps me to capture the laughter and love that fills our house every day.

    Thanks for joining me on this adventure!

October grace

It’s no secret: life is moving at breakneck speed these days for our family.


It’s fun + amazing + crazy + incredible, all at the same time.

I’ve been operating our party of five on a week-to-week basis since mid-August: first we got through Little O starting kindergarten, the next week we got through a marathon business trip to Europe for the Hubs, the following week Cali and so on. I get overwhelmed if I look at the big picture but if I take it a week at a time, it feels much more manageable. We’ve been rocking through it so far + having a ton of fun in the process.


However: this week-to-week operating system has it downfalls.


It hit me the other day that I’m not taking the time to sit back and absorb. Reflect. Drink in the beauty + the joy + this intricate dance of life that we’re living.


I’m here. I show up every day + I dive into our life + our children + our family and friends. And I’m absolutely loving it.

But I want to be even more present. I want to soak in these moments until they are etched into my brain so deeply that I’ll be transported back here when I’m 50, 76, 85. I’m worried I won’t be able come back to this *exact spot* in time~ because even now, as I’m living it, I know this is amazing stuff. I know I’ll want to come back in my memory + I need to remember these details so that I can.


I want to slow down time so that I can always feel Baby J’s soft head snuggling that perfect spot on the side of my neck. The way she pats my face and says Mamamamama and lights up + claps when I come get her from naptime.

I want to snuggle in bed with Little O + have her fill me in on all the details of kindergarten that seem to be freshest in her mind right as she’s ready to fall asleep. Hear her thoughts on scuba diving + becoming a marine biologist + the intricacies of learning how to do a flip on the hanging bar at recess.

I want to enjoy H-Berry’s super happy-go-lucky phase that she’s in + absorb all of her loveliness as she insists on helping me every day in dozens of different H-Berry ways. The way she talks {“me want to come with you!”} + adorably insists on wearing only “beautiful dresses.” Her heels + her tiara are never far away.

I want to relax on the couch next to the Hubs and watch our shows and remember that this is the life I’ve always prayed for with the guy who has lived in my dreams forever before becoming a reality, my future, the love of my life when we met in college.


And here we are. In this beautifully busy life, juggling careers + house stuff + commitments with three bubbling sweethearts of daughters who challenge us + demand things of us that we didn’t even know we could do.


It’s everything.

And it’s wonderful.


So today, on this first day of October, I’m praying for grace. I know things aren’t going to slow down for us in the near future~ and that’s okay. But I’m hoping for the grace + the ability to take a step back. Soak in these moments + memories + tuck them into my brain for safe-keeping so I’ll have them for decades to come. 

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What are you hoping for this month?

Counting My Kisses: Is it really October 1st already?! Here’s to a fresh new month full of beautiful fall colors, crisp air, cozy sweaters + taking the time to savor moments both big and small. Have a GREAT day friends!!!


Linking today’s post up with Shell’s Pour Your Heart Out. Because sometimes it feels good to pour your heart out.:)


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I think grace is the perfect thing to hope for this month, it seems chaos is abundant right now! It’s always a nice reminder though to think about how important it is to really LIVE in the moment, and to not just hold our breath until it passes.


I want to be able to take that step back, too. Everything goes SO FAST all the time, but I want to really enjoy the small moments.


I’ve been feeling this way too, that things are going way too fast and I need to really focus and take in all the small moments.



Love this post!! No matter how busy I am, I really try to take time to appreciate how good and blessed my life is. Especially at this point of my life :::: God is good!!


Happenings {first day of fall edition}

Helloooo friends!


Oh goodness. Has it really been a MONTH since I last posted?!? Blogging FAIL, friends. Many apologies.


A whole lot of life is happening around here. Things are *insanely* busy right now but we’re hanging on + enjoying the ride!

Shall we take a whirlwind tour of our recent happenings? Hold on to your hats!


1. Little O started kindergarten. 
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This transition has been a BIG one for our entire family. Full day kindergarten is a pretty big leap for any five-year-old, but O has handled it well. We’re all still learning + adjusting to this big change~ but we’re a month in and things are going as well as we could have hoped!

2. We welcomed sweet Cousin T to the world! 
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Seriously, isn’t she the cutest?! With her mommy’s hair + her daddy’s nose, Cousin T is completely adorable + so much fun to snuggle.

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We love love LOVE you, Cousin T! And such a lucky baby to have such awesome parents!!!

3. The Hubs + I went to Cali.

Um can I just say that I love San Diego + it’s gorgeously fabulous weather?! 

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We had an amazing trip + capped it off with seeing one of the Hubs’ very best friends get married. So fun to have a chance to dress up + dance with my favorite guy!
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4. H-Berry started preschool.

Less than 8 hours after we arrived home from our late-night Cali flight, H-Berry started preschool!

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She’s in the 3’s program this year, which is two mornings a week. Our sweet middle child has mixed feelings about it when we arrive at school but is always beaming by the end of the day at pickup. So far, so good!

5. Baby J turned O-N-E!

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I know, I know. How can that be?! I’m still in full-fledged denial about this one. A party recap post in is the works but in short: her pinwheel-themed birthday bash was a hit! Lots of smiles, lots of chocolate cupcake smashed everywhere on her cute birthday face, and lots of happy claps + happy flaps. 
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Baby J has filled our hearts with joy every single day since she arrived into our family, and it was such fun to celebrate our sweet girl with family + friends! AND we were able to snap our first cousins pic with Cousin T in it~ woo! Only one out of six kiddos are looking at the camera~ but no one is crying so we will chalk it up to a WIN!
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6. Celebrated a family wedding in Minnesota.

The Hubs + I are total jet-setters these days! {or something. Lol}. We were in Minnesota this past weekend for my cousin’s wedding + we had a ball. Such fun getting to hang out with our big + little family {we missed you, Jen + Chris!}! 

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It’s been such a treat to have a few child-free getaway weekends too~ the Hubs + I have had a chance to start AND finish multiple conversations, not to mention let loose, have a drink or two + wake up sans an alarm {or baby monitor}. We love every single minute with our girls but sometimes it’s nice to have a few minutes as the original us~ it helps to remind us how this whole beautiful life together began!
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A big thanks to both my mom for watching the beans while we were in Cali + the Hubs’ parents for holding down the fort while we were in Minnesota. It’s possible the kids wish we were still on our trips because we’ve heard reports that life with grandparents is “way more fun.” I bet it is, my little friends!

7. Welcoming fall + all of it’s beauty.

We had a super fun, incredibly jam-packed summer of awesomeness. It’s insane how fast it zoomed by~ does anyone else feel like they blinked twice + it went from May to September?? 

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I’m working on getting us all onto our new fall schedule + hoping that the time I have carved out for writing + this space that I love so much will continue to grow as we settle into our routine. Thanks for your patience as I work on getting things back up + running over here~ it is much appreciated!

Happy first day of fall, friends!

Counting My Kisses: Looking back at this post, it’s amazing how many wonderful things have happened in the past month! We are blessed beyond measure + I’m excited to see what this fall has in store for our party of five. Here’s to cool nights, warm days, gorgeous fall colors + lots of autumn fun!


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Sounds really busy and fun! Also, all three of them have grown so much! Mine have grown way too much as well! Why oh why must kids grow up so fast?! xo



I know Amy!!! Sob!!! They grow up WAY too fast!!! Hope you are doing well, thanks so much for stopping by! :)


This summer

I wish I could find the words to perfectly capture this summer.


It has been amazing~ the best one yet for our sweet little fam.

Full of laughter + memories + swimming + sunshine.


We’ve put some serious milage on the van.

And learned a few lessons about needing to pack lighter for our party of five.


We’ve let go of the die-hard nap schedules + tried to roll with life a bit more while out adventuring {a HUGE shout-out to Baby J for being the most flexible + adaptable third child EVER~ our sweet babe can sleep anywhere!}.


We’ve grown as parents. Fallen in love with each other a bit more every day. Each adventure has brought us closer together as a couple + as a family.


We’ve watched in amazement as the girls have grown right before our eyes. Accomplishments over the past few months include logging major scooter miles {the scooters have gone EVERYWHERE with us!}, learning to ride big kid bikes + swimming like little fishies under the water. Accomplishments in the under-one-year-old set include standing, clapping + saying dada, mama + baba. Nicely done, honey bunnies!


Our hearts have tripled in size as we’ve witnessed the sister love blossom between our sweet girls.


They don’t always get along~ and sometimes {ahem: almost always} they are very, very loud. But the fierceness in which these three love each other + protect each other takes our breath away.


It has helped to make this summer all the more magical.

And it has made our hearts overflow with love + gratitude + the need to capture every single moment 


Truthfully: I know our family will benefit from the routine + structure of the fall. I love crisp days, the vibrance of the leaves turning colors + cozying up under a blanket during a football game. And we’ll soon have a brand-new niece to snuggle, which I couldn’t be more excited about!


And yet…I still find myself wishing that this summer will never end.

I know it will…but my heart’s just not quite ready yet.

It’s too busy enjoying every moment of this memorable, remarkable, incredibly special summer. And I’m telling my heart to take all the time it needs.



Because this summer? It deserves a gold medal. It hasn’t been perfect~ but it has been completely amazing.


Counting My Kisses: I know it has been quiet around here  + I apologize. Little O starts kindergarten in 9 days {sob!} + we’re doing our very best to soak up every last drop of summertime fun. I miss you all + I miss this space~ but we’ll be back to our normal routine soon enough! Hope your summer days are full of sunshine, adventure + fun, friends. Have a GREAT day!


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This summer has been amazing – I can’t believe that it’s ending soon! xo


Fab Five Friday {we’re having an awesome summer edition}

Happy Friday, friends!!


Hope all is well in your neck of the woods. Things here are fun + busy + luckily, much healthier. We’ve had a few illness setbacks over the past week but everyone seems to {finally} be doing much better. Thank goodness, because it’s no fun to be sick, especially in the middle of a super fun summer!


Speaking of our super fun summer, here are a few happenings going on around here:

1. Baby J hit the double digits~ 10 months old! 

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Someone needs to make.it.stop. I’ve started planning her first birthday party {sob!}~ how is that even possible?!?! It’s going WAY too fast!!!

2. We had the most darling coral + gray-themed baby shower for my sister Jenna {full post on that in the works!}. I mean, could she be any cuter?! We can’t wait to welcome our sweet baby niece to the world in early September!

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 3. We spent last week with my parents + brother in my hometown, and we had an amazing trip!! There are too many highlights to recap~ but it was awesome to see aunts + cousins + friends, and especially spend the time with Mimi, Papa + Uncle Sean! 
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We look forward to our week there every summer + the girls are currently asking at least twice a day when we can visit again. Soon, sweet girls!

4. The Hubs + I enjoyed a lake weekend with our fab college friends last weekend while the girls spent the weekend at my parent’s house. Seriously, SO much fun. We laughed until our sides hurt + then laughed some more. 

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Same time next year, guys? We’re thinking it might need to be an annual event!

5. These cutie pies finished up tball this week! We’re chalking it up to a success {not to mention they are over the MOON with their medals!}. 

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I just love that these two can experience so many fun things together. I must say, 3 + 5 are REALLY great ages.:)


So those are a few of the highlights going on around here. On deck for this weekend: a combination of fun plans + some time around the house with the girls this weekend, which we’re looking forward to.

What’s on your agenda for the weekend? Have a GREAT one!!!

Counting My Kisses: I cannot believe how fast summer is sailing by~ we’re almost into August! Hands down, this has been one of my very favorite summers ever. We’ve been so blessed to have a schedule full of fun outings with friends, awesome visits with family, cool trips that the girls are loving + so much more. It’s going to be mighty hard to get back into the school routine~ but luckily we don’t need to think about that quite yet! Full speed ahead, awesome summer! We are loving every minute of you.:)


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Pure summer fun! We are having an awesome summer….running for the shave ice or ice cream truck, going to the pool, and spending cool summer nights with neighbors. Love summer! xo


Wordless Wednesday {sister story}

These girls.


They keep us centered;

they keep us laughing.

They help to remind us what’s truly important in life.


As parents, the Hubs + I know how much they depend on us~ to help them find their legs to soar, their strength to dream.


But what we didn’t realize…

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…is just how much they’d help each other stand strong from the very beginning.


Counting My Kisses: Years from now when our daughters read this post, I hope they understand how powerful this picture is~ and how much it touched my heart. Always cherish your sisters, sweet girls. They will be your very best friends through the ups + downs + twists + turns of life. Your sister story will unfold through the years~ but it’s pretty sweet to see those bonds of love + trust evident from the very beginning.

Love all three of you to the moon + back!


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THIS, this is beautiful. Sisters are amazing. xo



Ugh, I said Kellie again. I don’t understand why this keeps on happening.


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